Getting my hair pulled turns me on?

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My boyfriend will take his hand to the back of my neck, make a fist with my hair in his hand, and pull back my head gently, and I don’t know why but it just gets me going.. I can understand him pulling it during sex and it causing it, but I mean we can just be standing there and he does it (because he knows I love it) Why does this turn me on so much?

Jace Toy DDS · Accepted Answer

Lots of people like that! The scalp is a rather sensitive area and easily stimulated, touching, rubbing and gentle pulling of hair often feel really good. Also, the thought of him being rough with you can also be a major turn on.

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Jace Toy DDS · Answer

Do some research about the head and scalp online. YOU would be amazed how many nerve endings are stimulated by touch that are on the head. I love to have my hair, head, ears, touched. I always wondered why it turned me on and when I did some fact checking, I found out that other cultures have known this for years. Try to just rub your own head with your eyes closed in a quiet place. Then have your boyfriend rub your head. Pulling can be ok but the sensual rubbing and motion of slow magic fingers can send you to the moon. I do not like bash and dash sex but what ever trips your trigger. That is what I love about people and life; everyone is unique and special. Have fun but be safe. If it hurts, it hurts. Don’t question it and be brave and wise enough to stand up for yourself always!

Jace Toy DDS · Answer

Ok, this is what I think – because I like it too!Secretly, it makes you feel just a little bit dominated. As a woman we’re not supposed to like the feeling of a guy dominating us so we can’t really admit it. But it’s a great feeling when it’s done in the way your boyfriend does it – gently but firmly. There’s no harm in it at all if you get turned on. It might be interesting to find out whether your boyfriend has a secret wish for a bit of female domination too?! 🙂Enjoy it – sounds like a very healthy relationship to me.

Jace Toy DDS · Answer

Different things can turn people on and that’s the beauty of being human. He probably found this out by accident right? And that makes it even more special. I wouldn’t worry or care why it turns you on and just enjoy yourself. Does he have a spot like that on his body that you can trigger? I think you should challenge yourself to find it if you haven’t, because every man has one. For me its the ear lobes and neck. I love it when a woman nibbles on my ears, its an instant turn on.

Jace Toy DDS · Answer

This is akin to asking just why you have a favorite color. We ALL have different “turn ons” most are common, while some are not so common. Just like eating ice cream, while we all like vanilla, some people love other flavors rather than chocolate or strawberry. Like rocky road, mint choc chip, just be happy if you and your boyfriend like the same flavors.

Jace Toy DDS · Answer

Everyone haa something that turns them on as weird as it is thats yours dont feel bad mines pretty weird 2 i love when my boyfriends bites any part of my body. if you like it who cares do what makes you happy

Jace Toy DDS · Answer

You like having your hair pulled..i cant tell you y u get turned on..some girls like it some dont..

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