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How often does a man play with himself ? What is normal ?

Please serious answers only. I am 40ish and was married for 18 years and my husband played with himself every day at least once in the morning and again at night -- he said it was something all men HAD to do -- and I always thought that was completely normal -- but now talking to other people, they are telling me that it is not normal. So -- Please no smart remarks -- I am seriously wanting to get a idea of what is the norm ! Thank you

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Everyone has a differant level of sex drive and obviously your husbands libido is high. Masturbation is not as satisfing as real intercourse. Help him by making love to him more to satisfy his hunger. You want an answer to see if this is normal. What is normal for one is not normal for another. If he was not to releave himself how would he be. He might be more angry, stressed, and verbally abusive. Maybe hes releaving himself so he doesnt constantly pounce on you, realizing your sex drive isnt as great as his and hes trying to have enough respect for you by leaving you be. Did you know a mans risk of heart attacks decrease greatly by having sex atleast twice a week. Leave him be and he can continue to make an income...LOL I know, no sarcastics answers...sorry.... Show More
I am 28 years old and i have been with the same girl for over ten years. At first when i was 18 years old we would have sex at least 5-6 times a week, and i would still stroke my meat sometimes when she was at work or at the store. But now we have kids and we still have sex at least 3 times a week i don't find that much time to play with myself, although i do sometimes pull the Johnson from time to time, but not like when i was young. I just have more things to do, and i have more things on my mind.... Show More
Twice a day is normal if you're a teenager and you're in prison. But a married man... he should be whacking one out about 3-4 times a week. The rest of the time he should have been shagging you.Did you have sex with him? Coz if not then that would be a factor in him doing it so much. If not then the guy had issued...Or to put it another way, He was a wanker ;~)... Show More
I am 37 and have been married for 15 yrs..if i did maybe once a month...but me and the wife have sex 3-4 times a weekas being normal for men..not sure..I thought I was a normal manI hope I answered your question... Show More
If the blind component have been authentic, in all probability something like ninety 9% of adult males (and a selection of of ladies folk too) could be blind, it extremely is a daft old different halves' tale, and it extremely is quite no longer authentic. this may be somewhat early, even though it extremely isn't any longer unusual. What he desires now's for his father (or, if his father is absent, a depended on male kinfolk member; if none, then you definately) to take a seat with him and supply him the communicate. he's clearly growing to be to be attentive to himself, and he will prefer coaching in case you do no longer prefer him to make some alternatives he could later be apologetic approximately.... Show More
There is no one "normal" amount to suit everybody.Perhaps, twice a day was normal for your husband but twice a week would be normal for another.As one sex therapist said.....95 percent of men masturbate....the other 5 percent are lying.... Show More
Given the numbers you note...you've been married at least in your early 20s. Why only now you want to know what is normal? Anyway...two words...prostate cancer...do your homework / research... Show More
Well that seems like alot but maybe he just had a really high sex drive who knows men usually play with it anytime they get the chance... Show More
I'm like your husband and do it whenever i get the chance, i have evn done it at work in the toilet. but if it makes you uncomfortable that he does it so much maybe you could offer to do it for him and learn to do it properly by letting himm help you. then you could show him what you enjoy and POW you could have a new and exciting lovelife after all these years... Show More
As often as is tolerated by the women in our lives. For you, that was twice a day. For others, it would be not until she's out of the house. It all depends I guess.... Show More

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