I think this guy I like thinks I like him just as a friend but I don’t and I can’t seem to talk to him..idk what to do please help?
I have been friends with this guy for about a year, and I have liked him almost since the beginning. He might have liked me too because he often started conversations and dropped subtle hints. However, neither of us has been straightforward about our feelings. He confuses me at times because he can be distant; I might not hear from him for a while, and then he suddenly reaches out again. We mostly communicate through text since we don’t see each other much.
Recently, he asked for a kiss, and I told him that I had never kissed anyone before, that I was a bit scared, and that I wanted to be with someone I was in a relationship with. He seemed okay with my response, and we changed the topic because I was nervous. I mentioned that I trusted him a lot, but after that conversation, his replies started to take longer and longer.
I have suggested meeting up twice because I want to tell him how I really feel and maybe overcome my fear and give him that kiss. However, he tends to change the subject and then stops responding altogether. Since I don’t see him at school either, I’m feeling lost about what to do next. Can anyone please help?
1 Answers
Tell him you like him, if he doesn’t react how you want him then at least you told him, if you don’t you might regret it. Tell him exactly how you feel…that’s the only way you’ll ever know. Maybe he’s waiting for you to tell him because he doesn’t want to put effort into something he doesn’t see a future in? If it goes bad at least you did it and if he’s being distant then it doesn’t really sound like you have much to lose. tell him, if he is refusing to arrange to meet up then through text is the only way.
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