The first thing you want to do when you finger a girl is to make sure that she is turned on and wet. A good thing to do is to kiss her on the lips, neck and/or nibble on her ears/neck (if she likes it), feel her breasts and massager her nipples with your fingers or mouth.Once she is turned on, play with her snatch over her pants/panties. once you are sure that she is wet you can pull down her panties (or put your hand inside, depending on your situation) and play with her lips and clit. some say that the clitoris is hard to find but this is rarely the case and if you know where you are looking (about a half inch to an inch above the urethra) it is not hard to locate.Massage her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit. Try to avoid touching the clit directly with your fingers (tongue is ok) but rather rub the hood which covers the clit around in a circular motion, up and down or side to side.Once you are sure that your girl is REALLY wet, it will be safe and easy to insert ONE finger into her snatch. Be careful which way you push your finger as the canal may not travel in the direction that you expect it to. Be very gentle for the first few strokes, and make sure that you are constantly reassuring her if she is nervous. Take note of any body language which indicates discomfort and stop if she asks or if it seems that she is not enjoying it. As you are fingering her, keep building pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get rough or that your fingers do not become as fast as pistons, as many girls will not like this. you can then move on to more than one finger, however if your girl is a virgin and it is her first time getting fingered you should be careful not to break her hymen (thin membrane covering the inside of the vagina) as this will cause pain and discomfort for her and the situation may become awkward.If you can find the g-spot, a small walnut sized piece of flesh located on the top wall of the vagina about two inches inside, run your fingers over it and apply pressure. CAUTION: IF YOU HAVE NOT DISCUSSED THIS WITH YOUR GIRL BEFOREHAND, MAKE SURE YOU REASSURE HER AS PRESSURE ON THE G-SPOT CAN CAUSE A GIRL TO FEEL AS THOUGH SHE HAS TO GO TO THE TOILET.If your girl seems uncomfortable throughout any of this, reassure her by keeping dialogue open, kissing her mouth, neck, breasts and stomach and making sure that she feels safe.This is about all I have for now, but remember, these are only guidelines. Different women enjoy different techniques, and although it may be awkward, the best way to find out what a girl likes is to ASK HER....
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