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how exactly does a girl feel up a guy?

My boyfriend wants me to explore his body, but I feel embarrassed asking about it. I know this might seem like a silly question, but I'm quite inexperienced in this area and really want to do it right. I’d appreciate any guidance on how to approach this, and if possible, could you provide some descriptive tips? Please, no mean responses! Thank you!

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this isn't a stupid question!!! For a start, the fact that you're inecperienced either shows you have respect for yourself, or are underage. i hope you're legal. or at least emotionally ready for doing 'stuff' with your bf, like touching him up. OK, i'll stop now!

Okay, so first of all, you need to relax and be comfortable. if you're not relaxed or comfortable you shouldn't be doing this and your boyfriend should respect this.....

Right, so lets imagine you're relaxed and comfortable! and you and your boyfriend are making out...you only have to do whatever you are comfortable with. Touching him up doesn't mean going straight down south, it's about making each other feel good. For instance, when you kiss, run your fingers through his hair and gently clench your fists. kiss his neck or nibble his ear as places like these are really sensitive and sensations like kissing and nibbling can feel really good. hold his face in your hands when you kiss and then run your fingers from his neck down his chest and maybe hold his hand or something!

then when you go for feeling up what he obviously wants you to, gently run your fingers along the inside of his thighs up to wherever (depending if he's wearing jeans, boxers, nothing ha) and run them back down. changing the pressure you use when you do this, whether you stroke gently or harder can make him not only aroused but feel good. and depending on where all this is leading to, if it doesn't happen smoothly or feel right to you then you shouldn't be doing it!

you should really just talk to him about what feels good for him and what he likes....if he loves you and respects you blah blah blah, he'll appreciate you being open and showing a concern for what he wants and being able to talk about things like that will make you closer 🙂

hope i've helped in some way or another, and if you get any stupid comments, ignore them. most people on here are silly! 🙂

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Anonymous

Jan 20, 2025

Considering you haven't learned English yet, I'm guessing you're still in grade school. If this is indeed the case, then just hold his hand, and that's as far as you can go.

If however, you do know English, but simply hate it, then do this: start with non-private areas. Being touched by someone else, even on the arm, is a very different than touching your own arm. Pay attention to how he responds. Explore. Go wherever you feel comfortable. Remember, other than certain areas, the male and female body are the same. Do what you'd want him to do, and work your way up. Have fun. Be safe. Figure it out as you go. Unless you're too rough in the wrong areas, you can't really screw it up.

And sorry if I came off mean. I'm an English Major. I have to defend the language.

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Muriel Schoen

Jan 27, 2025

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how exactly does a girl feel up a guy?

my bf wants me to feel him up but plz ik its a really really stupid queation but I'm pretty unexperienced with this stuff but wanna do it but dnt no how! No mean answers! And plz kinda b descriptive haha

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Anonymous

Jan 24, 2025

lol don't be embarrassed by this at all! SOme people actually have different deffinitions of feeling up. but most likely he means you need to take your hand shove it down his pant and grab his pe*nis! lol I would start at the chest! rub his sexy man boobs! good luck!

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Anonymous

Feb 04, 2025

i think they feel satisfied and happy.you will understand better with your personal experience

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