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I dated one guy from okcupid and i end up getting pregnant. He told me to get abortion.?

I didnt want to but i had no money or family support to raise the baby. So i have to get abortion. I have spent hours & nights crying. He had told me before that if he made any girl pregnant, he would marry her and keep the baby, thats what he said in his profile too. Anyway, i went to check that to find out he is logged on it. He is always online there. Here i am pregnant, suffering and it doesnt even affect him, he is already trying to date others. I feel so devastated, like i want to cry my eyes out. How should i deal with anger, guilt and hurt?

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Leave the guy first of all. If he is going to get you pregnant, he has to be willing to help with the baby. On the abortion part, thats your decision. Thinks what best. Good luck. And it’s ok, everything will work out in the end.... Show More
Keep your baby, this child’s life is a beautiful gift and he or she will bring great joy and love to your life. Abortion will leave a hole in your heart, don’t do it.For help call the Sisters of Life at 877-777-1277 or visit http://www.optionline.org/ Stay strong, you will know life was worth it the moment you hold this precious child in your arms for the first time. God love you!... Show More
There are websites for trashing Exes it is only slander if it isn’t true or isn’t provable and he has to pay the website money to take his name down so at least he will be out a hundred. Get legal aid. There are good men out there who will be honorable and care for kids that are not their own and be good husbands and fathers. There are men who have always wanted to be fathers but are sterile or men that want to adopt but in your situation I would have friends check your dates first and ask your friends to play match maker because you choose poorly the first time.... Show More
u learned in such a hard way.listen , im gonna give u advice that kinda seems hard yet its good for ur self esteem and to teach responsibility to shi*** boy.ur mistakes , u just too naive , impulsive since he just intended to try to get in ur pants.and u r too naive to believe that.* don’t denied , just accept ur mistakes and be logical from now on * ( im sorry.. to be rude )and here is the point , thay guy is shi*, u should “slapped” him mentally by forcing him to take responsibility of this. SERIOUSLY.if he become violent or etc its time to ask ur parent. * u should deal with it.*it is definitely his n ur responsibility.its unfair , u guys felt the lust n enjoy it and ur fetus must felt the pain of that scissor or saline.nonono u will be doomed body n physical. if he still dont want to respond it. u should report police.at least wait till u give birth the baby. then leave tht guy with him should to pay for ur baby needs as well.dont be a monster.... Show More
This is why you should always study people before you date them. Sorry, it’s too late. Always think before you make any action…in the future. Oh, and I think abortion is not right. Good Luck.... Show More
Well think and do what you think is best for you and the baby doesn’t seem he cared about what your going through... Show More

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