I hate my live, and my mom.?

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I hate my live so much, I feel that my mother hates me, and I hate her so much. I feel so unloved, and I feel that my mother puts more importance in that show Betty La Fea, because whenever i try to tell her something during the show she snaps and tells me to shut up. I feel like my family is the only people that love me, but their are in Ecuador and I live here in America, Florida specificly. My mother also gets super mad, when my grades arn't what she expects, can she give me a break for once! My life is horrible because of her. She gets annoyed when I want to talk to her, she hates it when Im happy and having fun, she hates it when im laughing, she tells me to stop laughing. I hate her so much, Im wishing,- PRAYING is the better term- for the day that she drops on the floor like a stone. I also have tried to end my life myself, but I don't have the strenght to do it. I don't want to go to anyone for help because im afraid that when we finish talking with that person, my mother will attack me when that person is not around, im just afraid of my own mother!

Brandyn Moore PhD · Accepted Answer

You are afraid your mother will attack after you two see a counselor? Maybe, but that would not be much worse than everything else that already happens at home. So you have little to lose.Actually, she is probably frustrated too. She might welcome the chance to tell someone her feelings. She might hope the counselor will agree with her.But a trained counselor will be impartial, and find things that each person can do differently.It will be a huge relief. So go ahead and ask her to come with you to a counselor (maybe your school has one, otherwise try looking in the phone book).By the way, I've had people stand in front of the TV or talk to me while I was watching a show. It is very annoying and inconsiderate. So I understand your mother's frustration. Try talking to her only during the commercials.

Brandyn Moore PhD · Answer

I understand where you are coming from. alot of the time you dont want to go for help because counselers and such always think its the child that is doing something wrong. from experience, I know that it is not always the child. I am one of those good kids that just end up with the wrong parents. I feel that you are in the same situation. The only thing you can do is just tough it out, and just know that someday things will turn out the way they are suppose to. Its not always the child, there are bad parents out there.

Brandyn Moore PhD · Answer

have you tried talking to her? like tell her hey we need to talk one on one. and tell her exactly how you feel. Ask her her why she does the things she does and let her know. Im pretty sure there are good things she must had done for you before, bring those up... and dont ever do anything trying to end your life. life is to short and you only live once and highly suggest from experience to follow your spiritual side. Have a better relationship with God

Brandyn Moore PhD · Answer

she doesn't hate you! Its a mom's duty to be stressed. Are you an only child because if you are that would explain a thing or two. And no matter what you do to make her like you it won't help. You probably just did something really stupid when you were young.

Brandyn Moore PhD · Answer

you could get emancipated and live somewhere by yourself. the government would take money directly out of your moms paycheck and you wouldnt have to deal with her again... depending on how old you are though i think. i think around 16 ish you can.

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