Miss Penelope Treutel
Dec 13, 2024
My friend told my crush that i like him!?!?!?! What do i do?
My friend told my crush that I like him! What should I do?
So, I confided in my friend about my feelings for my crush. She asked if she could tell him, and I said no because I wanted him to get to know me first before making a move. However, she decided to tell him anyway. I'm not upset with her since I know she thought she was helping, but now I'm really nervous about speaking to him. I've been on edge ever since, and it’s affecting me physically—I can't shake this stomach ache!
I'm worried that he might have shared this with his sister and her friends. His sister and her friends can be quite snobby, although he doesn't seem to share their attitude. I'm concerned that they might make fun of me because of it. His sister doesn't like me, and I fear she might say negative things about me to him.
I really need some advice on how to handle this situation! Please help!
10 Answers
First thing, calm yourself. Just relax.
If he’s nothing like his sister then maybe he wouldn’t tell her something like that.
And if they make fun of you, oh well. You shouldn’t care what people think. Caring about people’s opinions is sort of a weakness. It just makes you more vulnerable. If you don’t care, then they won’t make a deal out of gossiping about you or teasing you. I promise this is true.
Finally, if you are around him then act like nothing is up. Pretend you don’t have a care in the world and BE CONFIDENT. That’s the best advice. Because he won’t get interested if you’re going to show that you’re a nervous wreck. Just chill and act natural. Everything will be fine.
Good luck! 😀
ok i totallyy know how you feel. my friends did the same thing to me… TWICE. the first time, it actually made the guy like me more, cuz he knew for sure that i liked him. it was awkward for a while but he started flirting with me and it was cool and my friend was like HAA lol. the 2nd time though, the guy didnt really like me that way, we were just friends, but he was cool with it. it was also awkward for a while but it went back to normal and we even went to the school dance together (as friends). so all i can tell you is that it’s gonna be awkward for a while, no doubt about it, but wat happens after that really depends on whether this guy likes you or not. just act normal, and avoid the subject. if he brings it up it probably means he likes you back, so hes checking to make sure its true. from my experience, guys are cнιcκens and are insecure and have to be certain the girl likes him back before making a move. so basically if he asks you about it thats a good thing. if he tells his sister/her friends, and they tell him stuff about you and he acts differently towards you because of it, then hes probably just a player and hes not worth it. get over him and find a guy whos worth it.
This is nothing to be embarrassed about, your friend on the other hand cant hold water so refrain from telling her any of your deep dark secrets. Just be truthful, worst thing you can do is deny it and still have to walk around with that nervous feeling in your stomach.
DON’T pretend nothing happened. As one answer said “the worst is over.” Fake your confidence, and go up to him and say “Word on the street is that you heard I like you” or something equally witty or funny. Don’t get too serious acting, play it off and make a joke. Suck it up and do it, easier said than done, but boys are usually pretty receptive to hot cнιcκs liking them. He’ll be your BF in no time!
Either explain it or act like nothing happened.
My friend did that too but she didn’t even ask and I didn’t have a chance to explain so we never talked to each other again and I’m still heart broken even thought it was a year ago.
Yer same thing happened to me, there is not much you can do in this situation accept play it cool. Act normal around him and if hes into you he may bring it up but if he is ignoring you then backoff but if he still talks to you but as a mate just be cool n be his mate. You don’t want to loose a good friend, do you?
Feb 07, 2025
So take a deep breath when you see him and think to your self RELAX ! then talk to him ! It will get easier and easier every time , Unless, you just do nothing and he thinks your friend was lying.. He’s a boy im sure he don’t listen to his sisters any way LOL
you need to relax. your right your friend did you a favor by telling him. and don’t worry about his sister you shouldn’t care about what other people think of you. you should talk to the guy, flirt with him but if you dont want to you dont have to bring up what your friend told him. play it cool and dont be mad at your friend.
The worst is over. Just pretend like nothing has happened. If he does make fun of you, he’s a jerk and you should forget about him. Once the water settles, you can check and see what his response was.
two pieces of advice stop caring about the sister issue and second talk to him and get things clear. your friend actually did the easy part which is letting him know that u like him now its up to u to keep it going.
if he likes u and u like him then dont care about what the sister says and if he really likes u he wont care what his sis says about u
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