Ms. Idell Brakus II
Dec 24, 2024
what should i do about my boyfriend ?
It's our one-month anniversary today, but I'm feeling uncertain about whether I should break up with my boyfriend. Here are my thoughts:
Reasons I shouldn't break up: 1. I really like him a lot! 2. He's going to high school camp with me, and I’ll be with him for two weeks.
Reasons I might consider breaking up: 1. I have some feelings for another guy. 2. He doesn’t do much when we’re together; he mostly just hugs me and we can't hang out often. 3. I don't see him very much. 4. My friend asked him if he would be sad if I broke up with him, and he responded, “Yeah, but it’s her decision.”
Honestly, I'm feeling really lost. Please help!
2 Answers
Well, for one, you didn’t really give any detail about WHY you like him. You rather gave MORE detail as to why you DON’T like him. Therefore, you should break up.
1) You have feelings for somebody else, which means your eyes and your heart are already wandering elsewhere, and that’s not fair to your boyfriend.
2) You guys have been dating for only a month. What else are you expecting him to do?
3) Have you spoken to him about this concern?
4) He’s right; it is your decision if you break up. You don’t want a guy that is overbearing or trying to control or manipulate you. However, I can see why his response is bothersome because it makes it seem like he’s easily abled to move on if the breakup happens. But again, it’s only been a month, so feelings are still developing.
Break up.
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