I hate my life?????????????

A very, very large percentage of the people in this world have good reason to hate their lives. They could be young ones like yourself but, being abused physically or mentally. They could be diseased or disabled ion some way, they could be little children in the Philippines, sent out by parents with a begging bowl for 12 to 18 hours a day, they could be kids collecting recyclables from the rubbish tips in Mumbai India, etc etc etc. Try looking at the POSITIVE side of your existence, and stop being sorry for YOU. You have parents who love you, a roof overhead,food in your belly, good health and live in a 1st world country. If your sister’s a whinger, tell her to shut TFU and get a decent boyfriend, there’s plenty of them out there. Tell your dad you are not the touchy, feely type of person . I’m assuming he’s a decent sort and doesn’t get some sort of ᴘᴇʀvᴇʀтed thrill out of it, if you think you are fat, diet and exercise, and make plans to find a part time job to finance a used caravan in the garden for you to escape to. Positive thinking brings happier results than negative. I hope the pep talk helps…..

Go to a counselor if you’re that upset.

I mean, just be grateful for what you have. I know that’s overused, but it’s also really understated.

I never realized this until I was diagnosed with a disease at age 13 that is slowly killing me.

And ever since this, I have developed bipolar disorder, lost way too much weight, become a cutter, and attempted suicide several times.

I’ve accepted this by now. Its really for the best. Your life is as good as you make it, and I know you can return to being happy if you want to.

So my point is, just know that you’re a lot more fortunate than you think. I’m sure you’re beautiful and loved and special in so many ways that you don’t even realize.

I know times can be hard, so get help. You’ll be glad you did:)

Just like you I feel I have no reason to moan. I go to a private boarding school and live in a lovely house. What do I have to complain about? Here’s what I think is wrong in my life:

My brother has a terminal disease that will kill him in a few years and looking after him puts a stress on my family life.

I haven’t been home in 7 weeks and now I’m home everything’s dreadful. I always look forward to coming home, but once I’m here I just want to go back to school. My dad’s like you and whatever problems I have my mum is oblivious too.

School is stressing me out, mostly because I gave to do fast track French, which means I have to take my French IGCSE a year early and then learn everything for a Spanish IGCSE in one year. I asked the teacher if I could be

I suspect I have OCD and seasonal depression as I’m always really depressed at Christmas (so this time of year); however, I’ve never been this bad. For the above reasons I felt terrible at school and got a pin and scratched (not cut) my wrists and scratched the word ‘die’ on my arm. Luckily the scratches healed before the end of term so my parents never found out, I also skipped lunches and eat barely anything for breakfast and dinner (I had to eat something otherwise the house parents would get suspicious). I’m always in constant fear I will never see my brother alive again and he will die while I’m at school and these thoughts of death and despair plague my thoughts constantly. moved out and they said they thought I was coping. Yeah, right…

I feel life is a worthless and endless game that only death can ease the burden of.

And Emmy, you have a lot to be thankful for and envy you’re life. You et to see you’re parents and sibling everyday. You don’t have to worry. I really envy you and would swap lives in a heartbeat (I seriously mean that).

I’m called Becky, am 14 and have not told my parents the above because they’re won’t understand and think I’m over exaggerating.

I know you probably feel crazy and angry and different from everyone else but what you feel is so completely normal. You don’t have to have aspergers to feel funny about your space, being touched, having funny idiosyncrasies that make you feel like you need extra space or particular control over your surroundings. You sound totally normal to me. Sharing space is difficult, growing up is painful and not having your needs and space respected is painful. However, one day which will come quicker than you can imagine, you will have your own space and much more control over your life. Your problems will be replaced by new ones and it may bring you more comfort or it may bring you less. However, you will be well-equipped to deal with them because you will have learned so many coping skills to help you deal with life. Also, you may feel overweight and health is something everyone should strive to do better but beauty is very fleeting and a little extra weight is truly a small thing in life. Finally, whether or not you believe you are talented, having hobbies that your passionate about in life is more than most people have. Your hobbies will be your best friend and serve you well, regardless of your inherent talent. Chin up buttercup and as Carol King says, “You’ve got to get up every morning with a smile on your face and show the world all the love in your heart.” Finally, nothing will make you feel better than doing something for someone else.

I hate my life too, my parents left me at a very young age, I was adopted eventually, and I get put down on a constant basis, I’m insecure. I’ve become so depressed. My adoptive parents, I love them but they’re overbearing. I have past demons. I hate most of my adoptive family and my friends have told me I have a good reason to. I can’t trust anybody and I consider my few friends the only true family I have, the only people who don’t leave or can’t accept me for who I am

I really just hate my life too and I have thought about suicide and then just thought about my family and friends. I often picture myself in a coffin and think about if my parents would care and I always see them standing there crying. I think this every day.

I have a colour OCD, everything has to be in rainbow order ?

I am 13, 7 stone and hate my life…

I often cry myself to sleep and knkw there are people worse off than me but to be honest, I know it sounts cruel and that but I dont care! They’re not me, I dont know them. All I know is MY LIFE no one elses. Why should I? I cant not think about death all the time. My parents constantly get on my nerves and they shout at me for just saying ok to them or asking for bus money. I cant cope and no one around me can/will support me. I feel alone.

We all hate our lifes.

I live alone in a dark and cold 20m2 studio in the Netherlands, I’ve no family, no friends, no partener in life. No one cares about me. Living in solitude for more 15 years have made my life unbearable. At least I’ve a roof, food and a good job, but is amazing how we humans need other humans to be happy, no one can be happy alone.

To you I tell you: You are still young, time will come for you in which you will be given the oportunity to take the decisions for your own life. Then you will have your chance.

And don’t worry about today, same as life passes by, this will also pass by.

Given the time, even the darkest nights will fade into light.

The problem with people in this world is that they don’t know how to appreciate what good things God put in their lives and how to work with what bad things there are. Everything that happens in life works out for the best. Believe me. The key to being happy is gratitude for what good things ARE in your life. If you start to pity yourself and keep thinking “my life’s so awful”, then you’re the one making it awful, because life is what you make it. Stop complaining. Brace up. Get a positive attitude, cuz guaranteed life will work out. Do things ya don’t normally do – get involved in some sports, make some friends, get some new hobbies. Oh and about your dad, if he is touching you where you’re not supposed to be touched, it is child abuse and you MUST get some counselling. If it gets really bad, you might have to call CAS. I have a lot of the problems you have. Honestly. Seriously. But you have to learn to push past the hard times and work towards a goal. In your case, since you’re just a kid, look for some new hobbies, try out some sports, get into music – put variety into your life. Right now your life sounds pretty boring. Do your school, do your chores, do what you’re supposed to do. But don’t let yourself fall into the habit of feeling sorry for yourself cuz THAT WONT HELP ANYTHING, okay? Set aside time for fun. Work hard. Play hard. Put everything you have into what you do. And as soon as yo are old enough to go to college or university, DO IT. Make a plan for your life. What do you want to be when you grow up? Do you want to get married? What is your ideal place to live when you’re older? Ask yourselves futuristic questions such as these to keep you motivated. It gives you something to work towards.

And remember, you have infinite value in God’s eyes! NO ONE on this earth, NO. ONE. is worthless. We were all made for happiness. EVERYONE deserves it. EVERYONE can find it. Don’t let ANYONE put you down. Check out a book or website on self esteem practices, this’ll help.

If I have helped in ANY way, no matter how little, I will be happy.

Best of luck! Keep your chin up!

I do hate my life because I do get bullied every single day and I get called fat ugly ***** liar and everything else and I get physically abused so yeah I have a reason to hate my life and also everyone gave up on me except for a couple of people there’s like 3 people who haven’t given up on me yet but they might I already know there going to because everyone else hates so why shouldn’t they and also o have tried to kill my self before I have tried to overdose on pills and tried to cut too deep on my veins and yes I do cut well I stopped.

You might be a little young for this but if you look into meditation that might help the voice telling you you need to be thinner, worthless, etc. I used to have the same voice but then I realized that it was holding me back from what I wanted. Join a sport too! Exercise is fun:) Try and be out of the house as much as you possibly can, running is good for that and then when you’re home just sleep and no one will bug you.

i hate my life i want to kill myself but I’m too much of a ρʊ.ꜱꜱɣ to do that either so I’m stuck living hating my life. everybody hates me and has given up on me. I’m so blessed and privileged though and so lucky to be born into the family i was (except my parents are never understanding of me no matter what it is and they don’t want me to be happy they just want me to make them happy by succeeding at all the things they want me to succeed at and making them feel like they are good parents) but still even then they have way better judgement and perspective than I do, because i ꜱᴜcκ at life. No one cares about me the happiest moment of my average day is when I’m in bed and about to fall asleep and ill pretend that i don’t exist and daydream about being happy and having a cool life. Don’t feel sorry for me though i deserve misery and frustration because I’m a jerk and i ꜱᴜcκ at life.