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Tevin Kessler

Feb 20, 2025

If A Girl Calls You Buddy?

I work with a girl whom I really like, and she has called me "buddy" a couple of times—once in a text and another time in person. She often flirts with me, smiles when she sees me, laughs at my jokes, and teases me. However, I’m wondering if her calling me "buddy" means she only sees me as a friend, or if it doesn’t necessarily matter. I should also mention that she has agreed to go to a baseball game with me in the next week or two, although I don’t consider it a "date." What do you think?

11 Answers

she's not interested in you....girls flirt with guys all the time...

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Anonymous

Dec 29, 2024

You've got to take it in context of her regular vocabulary, really. I seem to call all sorts of people buddy, including the guy I was last into. I try not to, for fear of making him think of us as just friends. Still, I use it so often that sometimes its just a habit and it slips in. I also call my mom "dude" on occasion, although she is anything but! Don't read too much into this alone -- but if she is avoiding affection and physical touch, hard to get a hold of, and not wanting to make plans very often ... Chances are you're just a friend. If she is open to physical affection, likes to hang out often and initiates contact frequently, sounds like there's more there.

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Anonymous

Nov 23, 2024

That's really weird, usually girls would call guys

'a buddy' if their not into them. But since you're

saying that she's flirting and everything makes

me think different. This is a tough one. Maybe

during the baseball game you should call her

buddy and see how she responds. If you guys

are serious, and you're sure she likes you back

100% you should ask her why she calls you

'buddy' but if not it would be pretty awkward just

to bring it up like that.

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Anonymous

Dec 01, 2024

I'm in the same situation, this girl im liking keeps calling me buddy. However her first language isn't english ( although she speaks english fluently) . We dont even know each other well but when she keeps saying it. I noticed she calls everybody buddy though, so i never thought much of it.

Just start making moves / sweet talking the girl like crazy

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Anonymous

Dec 10, 2024

I call guys buddy and it means nothing in relation to how I see them. I would totally still consider dating a guy I may have randomly called buddy a few times. As far as I can see, it makes no difference.

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Anonymous

Dec 29, 2024

Girls call me buddy, It's kind of a new fad I guess. just because you're her buddy doesn't mean you can't become more than friends. All good relationships start with friendship. Good luck and she definitely likes you but doesn't want to put herself out there just yet ;).

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Kay Gutkowski

Dec 23, 2024

hmm I've been in a similar boat too. A girl called me buddy very often and then I realized I'm in the 'friend zone'. If you like this girl , then you gotta do something drastic.

Yep, she wants you bad. Seriously, watch Gilligan's Island. The skipper always called Gilligan, "Good Buddy", and they had a long relationship.

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Anonymous

Dec 15, 2024

I would say casually to her" hey my name is so and so and feel free to use my name instead of always calling me Buddy!". She should get the point, without you coming across rude.

My guess is she just thinks of you as a "buddy".

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Anonymous

Feb 05, 2025

Why don't you see how it goes at the baseball game and stop worrying so much.

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Anonymous

Jan 31, 2025

Take her hand and put it on your cock. Then say "How do you like my buddy ?" You will know real fast if she is into you.

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