Should my girlfriend be upset that i have a female friend from before i met her?
I have a female friend from high school, and I’m a male. I’ve never had any romantic interest in her, and I never thought it would affect my relationship. However, when I receive a call from her or mention her in casual conversation, my girlfriend gets upset and we end up fighting about it. It's really frustrating for me because while I understand how it could be concerning for her, it feels unfair to restrict my friendships when there’s nothing inappropriate going on. I rarely hang out with this friend; we only communicate through text every so often, and I’ve allowed my girlfriend full access to my phone, so she could read our messages if she’s worried. Despite her checking my phone multiple times without finding anything suspicious, this issue continues to persist. I’m at my wit’s end. Should I break up with my girlfriend, whom I love, or should I cut off this friend to keep her happy?
4 Answers
Jan 29, 2025
Chicks are nut cases get use to it , one day you may get lucky and find one that doesn’t have this issue but after 35 yrs of dating and relationships I have yet to find one , I have even dated bi girls who are happy to have a 3 way but they still get jelly if you actually speak to a female
I was dating this guy once who broke up with me because He said I got jealous of him and his female friend. It was untrue because i honestly saw them as friends and I never mentioned them but anyways, if you break up with her then it’s gunna seem like you’re choosing your friend over her which will only make her think she was right all along. Tell her how you feel and say you love her and you need her to trust you. Say you’ve never ever thought of your friend in that way. Does your gf have any guy friends you can compare the situation to? Best of luck, it’s a tricky one?
You must ask yourself: If your GF had a male friend from before she met you and kept in constant contact with him, how would you feel? Answer that question with 100% honesty and you will have your answer!!
Feb 14, 2025
Your current GF is shallow, weak & lacks confidence.
I would drop her like a 2 foot putt !
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