My boyfriend spent the night with his ex-girlfriend! please HELP?

No you are not over reaching, he was crossing the line WAY too many times. Forget the maggot and find someone who will treat you the right way. Good luck!! *u*

Not at all my good man, you should insist that she makes arrangements to be home that night, even if you have to pick her up. If the issue comes up that you don’t trust her enough. Then tell her the truth. You don’t trust her, and the events she is proposing sounds ludicrous. She is planning on drinking, with and old flame, and spending the night with him. Even with an exceptionally good relationship, after slight intoxication sets in with an old flame = a recipe for major disaster. Throwing them in the same room and bed, only multiplies the chances of adultery. If I were you however, the question I’d have is not whether she is being unreasonable, but whether or not you should still be together with her. I will assure you that when ever a girlfriend of mine comes up with a scenario not unlike yours, I will seriously question her mental status. If she can’t see what she is getting into, what else won’t she think is cheating? However, if she knows what she is asking, then she is already planning to commit adultery. She is really just asking you for trust. So the question I impose to you is do you trust her so much. What ever the answer is, I trust that you now know what you must do.

I don’t think you’re overreacting, thats a very understandable reaction to that situation. However, you should take a chance to really talk to him about that night and see what his side of the story is. It does suck that he didn’t feel the need to share that information with you, which says that he is really trying to hide something. But, I would take an opportunity to talk to him, get everything out in the open, and make sure that you made the right decision with ending the relationship. If he can’t be honest with you about going to visit his daughters and staying with his ex, then he’s not an honest guy.

i dont know girl but i probably would have reaccted the same way. but ask ya self this question have he ever talked about his ex often has he acted strangely after or before the incident? hmmm…i know it is rough baby girl but there are just certain borders where u cross. and sleeping in the same bed with an ex when u had another reserved room for urself…thats kind of suspicious. im sorry it had to go down like that mama but ya boy’z tripping.

Not at all! He should not have done this to you! And he should have at least told you! My boyfriend is going on a trip with his family, and the baby sitter is coming too(the baby is almost 1). But he told me that they were going to be staying in the same room. Since he told me, I don’t have a problem with it. But if he told me they were going to be sleeping in the same bed, then I would have a problem with that! But you are perfectly within your rights as a girlfriend to be mad! You did the right thing!

He may have just wanted to be with his daughters. But if I was in that situation I probably have done the same thing because your boyfriend should have known that staying in the same room as his ex-GF could have hurt you.

girl you know as well as i do what happend in that room with his babys momma,,, now that you know the truth,, the question is what are you going to do about it? you can stay in a unstable dishonest untrusting relationship or take a step back and look at yourself and say nope i’m too good to put up with this bull sh– and move on,,, cause sistergirl its not worth it he will allways go back and forth as long as you allow it he’s cool with it,,, cause he has the best of both worlds,,, i wish you the best.. make a wise choice cause i know your not stupid ,, and no your not over reacting,, good luck ,,,, laters

No sweetie, you did the rite thing. He is playing a game not worth your while! Let him go play with his family. Don’t you get yourself hurt anymore over this. He does not care about your feelings. So while you are able to walk away do so before it gets to hard! There are so many GOOD man out there! Do yourself a favor get one of them. Love is a beautiful thing with the right person. TeeVee

You are not over reacting and I think there is a huge possibility they slept together. You can do much better.

you are reacting in a way that most women would react. i am in the EXACT same situation right now, and i left him about a week ago… it’s hard to deal with and hard to know what to believe, but trust your heart…