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How do I feel up my girlfriend?

How can I express my feelings for my girlfriend in a more intimate way? We’ve been dating for two and a half months, and we are both 15, almost 16, and sophomores in high school. She’s my first girlfriend, and I’m her first boyfriend. We’ve shared some make-out sessions, but I’ve never explored physical intimacy beyond that. I feel nervous about taking this step because I’m unsure if she would be comfortable with it. What should I consider before moving forward?

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im just gonna tell u what my boyfriend did, it worked on me soo hopefully if will work for u 🙂

(oh and he is more experienced than me and it was my first time but not his first time)

before we first kissed he was holding my hands (so he could get me used to the touching ya know?)

then we were sitting close and he put his arm around me and his hand on my thigh

i had holes in my jeans so he kinda played with the holes

then we started making out and he just slowly moved his hand to my side and he moved his hand down to where my shirt ended and pulled it up a little and he just went from there

he went up my shirt and i let him

(if your girlfriend is gonna stop u it will prob be when you r first going under her shirt)

when my bf does something i don’t want i just move his and hand continue kissing

(if she does this to u, don’t get discouraged, just do something else)

and if u want to feel up her pussy (above pants) the just move your hand to her thigh and kinda pull her leg up on u to spread her legs apart, and just kinda rub her around there (she will like it)

but she may pull your hand away if she is shy, because sometimes girls don’t know what to do when a guy is doing that

good luck! 🙂

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Anonymous

Feb 22, 2025

MAKE SURE that you guys are in a very close relationship before attempting the following. You should first start making out with her, then you should start playing with her hair a little, and stroking her back up and down. put your hands on her back while she is facing you (still kissing) and move your hands slowly towards her breasts, barely touching them. IF she doesn’t react, then go a little farther. If she does, stop trying to touch her and just play with her hair again. If she does let you get closer, then touch her a little closer to her breasts. Kiss her neck a little, and move down her waist ONLY if she has allowed you to touch her breasts. then move your hands up and down her waist, touching her thighs. Repeat. after a couple of months of expirimenting like this, then go ahead and take off her shirt once you get down to her waist. The most important thing is that u dont rush things and go with the flow.

Dont be afraid of doing something new. The worst she can do is tell you not to. I dont think she’ll slap you or anything like that. If in all this time you havent done it, i believe she already trusts you enough to let you touch her.

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Anonymous

Jan 19, 2025

well man, theres only one way really… go slowly starting from her back… work your way down or touch her breasts first if you want

if she stops you apologize and talk a little bit about what the problem was… make sure you choose a good time and place as well

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Anonymous

Feb 05, 2025

ask her how far she’s comfortable going. but tell her you’re a little nervous about it so she doesn’t think you’re a horn dog

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