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Walked in on my 16 year old son receiving a βJ from his Girlfriend.?

What would you do if you walked in on your 16-year-old son receiving oral sex from his 18-year-old girlfriend, who is a senior in high school? The age of consent in Massachusetts is 16, so no crime was committed. As a 67-year-old single father, I want to understand how other parents might handle this situation. I don't want to get them in trouble, as I believe they mean well. However, I was shocked by what I witnessed. I would appreciate any advice on how to approach this.

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Anonymous

Jan 31, 2025

if it happened in your house and you dont want it going on in your house, make it so that he cant have his girlfriend over when your not home, and that they have to keep the door open.

either way, the embarrassment is probably enough to make him not do that at home again

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Anonymous

Jan 24, 2025

Unfortunately, most kids at 16 years old and younger are doing that plus much more. I'm 16 and a half. I've made a vow not to do anything till i'm at least 18.

I would talk to him about it and tell him how you feel about the situation...It might not do anything, but it's worth a shot.

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Anonymous

Feb 11, 2025

Incurage them because ꜱɛҳ is a part of life and everyone sooner or later will do it and nothing no one can do about it.As long as no one is getting hurt then imbrace it. Why not be creative and join in. Teach him and have fun while your at it. Just don't deprive them the gift of love.

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Anonymous

Feb 09, 2025

This is from a teenagers point of view: If my dad walked in on me doing that i would be mortified. Dont get mad at him or anything what he is doing isnt really bad and its a fact of life. but you might want to have a talk with him and ask him if hes using protection and stuff like that it might be emberssing but it would ꜱᴜcκ if he got some S.T.I just sayin. hope i helped

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Anonymous

Feb 10, 2025

I'm seventeen, and I've been in that situation. My boyfriend's dad walked in on the same thing once, but he didn't see much. Honestly I'm really glad he didn't make a big deal out of it. He knows we've been together for four years, and that it's legal and that that's all we're doing.

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Anonymous

Feb 08, 2025

You had a child when you were 51? Is your wife 20 years younger than you? An average 67 year old would be a grandfather of a 10 year old by then.

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Anonymous

Feb 03, 2025

ew your 67? That means your son was born when you were like 53 thats weirdd. Anyways just talk to him, you shouldent be posting it on the internet its no ones buisness

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Anonymous

Jan 25, 2025

wow wouldn't that be awkward to walk in on...

Well you dont have to say anything about it

if it doesn't bother you

and they are legal age or tell him you

dont want them doing that stuff in your house

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Robyn Ziemann

Feb 03, 2025

Its normal. Give him the 'ꜱɛҳ' talk and give him ċöndöms. But let him know that you aren't influencing him to have ꜱɛҳ, just that you want him to be safe if he does have ꜱɛҳ.

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