What does sex feel like for a girl?

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I’m asking this because I’m still a virgin and I plan to be until I’m married. So anyways, is it really that painful from what I’ve heard?Do you think it will be painful for me if I have trouble putting tampons in?Just wondering.Serious answers please!Thx a ton!

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Accepted Answer

It won’t hurt so much that you’ll want to cry or anything. My first time I thought for just an instant “this hurts so much I don’t know why people do it” then in the next instant it felt good and I knew why people did it. As far as how it feels, it’s hard to discribe. In a sense, it’s kind of like when you have an itch and you scratch just right, in another way, since he’s inside you, you feel like you posess him, like he’s where he’s supposed to be. You’ll feel like you have this space inside of you that’s made just for him.

Jadon Smith · Answer

Sex is painfull, it also makes more painfull menstruations and fast weight gain, in my case +30kg within 2 weeks. Sex is degrading you into object for male needs, it automatically makes it ok to rape or abuse you verbally or physically for beeing “promiscous” or not enough size 2 to 0 later on. People claiming it to be wonderfull are just bluntly lying. It feels like a gorilla pushes you down, grabs you overall and sticks it in. It does not get any better with time, in my case 10 years passed and i still hate and regret it. Never used tampons since they hurt, and you shouldnt because they are not safe , multiple cases of bad components, ilneses, infections and other scandals. Noone other than manifacturer tests tampons, so whatever is cheapest ends in them. Besides tampons are painfull too.

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

It’s amazing. An orgasm is the best feeling in the whole world. My first time was horrible, but is wasn’t painful. It was bad because we were both inexperienced and nervous. The worst sex is new sex. Use lubricant and have him go slow so it doesn’t hurt the first time. If you can use tampons regularly it should not hurt at all. EDIT:So why did everyone get a thumbs down? I didn’t recommend you try it, I just answered your question. However, I also agree with the woman that said try it before you buy it. You could end up with someone who is horrible at it and miss out and an awesome experience. “I love Dogs” – How is sex disgusting? Are you serious? Sex is AMAZING. How old are you? If you can’t answer a question seriously, don’t bother. Best of Luck!Law

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

No, it’s not really that painful. It feels like a pinch in the crotch for a few seconds. It helps if the guy prepares you right (foreplay) and goes slow, plus if you relax. The more nervous you are, the tighter the muscles there get.Ask him to give you an orgasm (clit) before intercourse. That helps to lubricate you.The good news is your times after the first will be easier and not painful; especially if you let yourself heal for a week after your first time. That is what I did.It could be more painful because you can’t get tampons in, but I found out that your vagina gets more relaxed as you get older as your reach your 20’s and 30’s (my personal experience). I tried to insert tampons a couple of times during my teens when a period came (I was very irregular), but could never get them in.You can also stretch it a little with your fingers for several months. That helps a bit too and what I did.I didn’t start to use tampons until I was 31 (I was still a virgin). I was able to insert them then.

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

Do not need to worry for this. You will make love and not just have sex, there is such a big difference between one and another. And with the person you love it will be the most wonderful experience you will have. It will be so wonderful that he would be very careful to make you feel right without hurting you. When the time comes, you’ll be so in love that you would not think if it will or will not hurt you. So relax and enjoy.But do not need to worry for this now. It doesn’t really matter if you are or not married, but what matters is that you must do it because you really love this person.

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

Ok, here’s the low down… yeah, the first time will hurt, but it’s not that bad…just a quick ouchie…then you have all these other sensations to distract you. You feel very full, esp. in the beginning of your sex life. You will most likely feel him push against your cervix on the inward strokes…that can be breath taking…a little pain, a little pleasure. It feels just wonderful. Here’s a tip though… many women/girls can’t reach orgasm through intercourse alone, so if you don’t get there…don’t worry…just ask him to touch you, or you touch you (don’t be shy…men LOVE watching and he will appreciate you being honest with him about not being finished than if you lie, fake it, and then feel unhappy with your relationship. If you are able… touch yourself while having intercourse… that is the very best, most awesome sensation! Hope that helped!

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

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Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

Sex from person to person is going to vary. I’ve heard of stories where the girl cannot handle it because the guy was too forceful and didn’t prepare himself and herself enough (ex. lubrication). But if done slowly and your not being forced too much, it should feel like a wonderful experience. I know the first time I had sex I went down on my girlfriend and slowly opened her up by performing oral sex on her. She in turned did the same to me, so when we were ready for the actual intercourse we were both well lubed, and I took it nice and slow for her. Slowly I would go harder, but not hard enough where she’s in complete pain. After awhile she liked it when I was a little rough with her, and tended to enjoy it more, but that took a few sessions.For your first time, as long as you trust the guy (I hope you do if you’re waiting to be married to him), and he is respective of your body you both should be fine. For a guy sex with a condom is good, but when you don’t have a condom on the guy can feel soo much more as well as the girl.I hope that helps to explain a little bit. The feeling is like nothing else, unless you masturbate with a penis, but the real thing is definitely different.

Dr. Rhianna Breitenberg Sr. · Answer

I guess it feels good I mean why else would so many girls do it? Im 12 and I have a pool and there is this thing that shoots out water so we act like its rapin us. It HURTS. But it won’t go easy on u. And like I said were only 12 so were not big enough for it. So your smart to wait till ur married. Thats what im gonna do to. My friend im not sure bout. I wanna be an actor so I don’t wanna have a kid before I do that. So hope all goes well. Luv-actress kutiepie9612

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