I had a dream that my boyfriend left me for another girl while I was with him. I really need some insight ?

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I had a dream last night that my boyfriend left me for another girl while we were on a group trip. The girl was also in our group, someone he had just met. They kept running away from me, trying to stay out of my sight. Eventually, I confronted him about it, and he told me that he still loved me but wanted to be with someone else. He suggested I should try dating someone else as well. I vividly remember sitting in a movie theater with him, watching him cuddle with her while I was right next to him. I felt completely devastated.
My boyfriend and I have been going through some issues lately, but nothing too serious—just some arguments, likely because we spend too much time together. He hasn’t been getting enough time with his friends and neither have I. Last night, we had a fight about him smoking pot—a habit I dislike and want him to stop. I made him upset by asking if he was going out to smoke with his friends that night, and he responded by saying he wished it didn’t affect me. It felt like a trivial argument.
Why am I having this dream that leaves me feeling so uneasy? I haven’t talked to him today at all, but I feel like the dream was real and that we are broken up. What does this dream mean? I would greatly appreciate any insight.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

i think you are unhappy with this boyfriend and/or you feel a lack of control with this relationship and perhaps you feel a  lack of control in other areas of your life

Dr. Marshall Ryan Jr. · Answer

you shouldnt bring dreams into the real life it was just a nightmare

think of it like this if you are being attacked by a monkey in a dream do u believe that it will really happen dont worry about it

Presley Lynch · Answer

same here but just give him some space and make him think you trust him and let him smoke even tough he knows you don&rsquo;t like it is his health, just to see how everything goes for now, but keep an eye on him. if you don&rsquo;t try to argue with him he won&rsquo;t argue with you. i feel the same about the hall smoking thing and i feel like saying something every time i see my bf do it but when i do say something it creates an argument, so i say u wouldn&rsquo;t like to see me doing it. he even lie to me about going to some friend&rsquo;s house because he was going to smoke and i said i rather him tell me that he is doing that then to lie to me, but that is me.

Anonymous · Answer

Why?  Insecurity.  You need to check it out because that sort of feeling can drive you crazy.  It leads to a lack of trust and can drive a wedge between your relationship.

Marco Littel · Answer

Guardian angel telling you find someone better ð

I had dreams like this, didn’t listen, married, had a horrible time at it, ex-wife finally divorced me! YAY! Found a new wife, without those crazy dreams, and we get along perfectly!

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I had a dream that my boyfriend left me for another girl while I was with him. I really need some insight ?

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